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Mindfulness and Rest: Rediscovering the Power of Surrender

 In a world brimming with constant stimulation, the art of rest has become more precious—and elusive—than ever. Our mind-body, perpetually in overdrive, yearn for moments of stillness to recalibrate and renew. Yet, rest is often misunderstood as laziness or inactivity rather than a vital act of self-preservation and surrender.


The Connection Between Rest and Surrender

Rest isn’t merely about ceasing physical activity; it’s an intentional practice of surrender. To rest fully, we must let go—not just of external demands, but also of internal expectations and the urge to stay productive. This surrender invites us to embrace stillness and trust that our bodies and minds know how to restore balance when given the chance.

In mindfulness, rest becomes an active engagement with the present moment. When we rest mindfully, we’re not running from our thoughts or feelings but creating a spacious container for them to exist without judgment.


The Power of Eye Rest as a Gateway to Mindful Surrender

In my mindfulness classes, I often begin with a simple yet transformative practice: an invitation to rest the eyelids. This small act can be a profound step toward relaxation and awareness.

  1. The Practice:
    Start by gently resting your eyelids, barely allowing light to enter. This intermediate state—neither fully open nor closed—helps ease the transition into rest.

  2. Gradual Surrender:
    As you feel ready, let the eyes close completely. Notice the sensation of letting go, allowing the darkness behind your eyelids to cradle your awareness.

  3. Sensing the Surrender:
    Pay attention to how the body responds when you permit it to simply be. You might feel your shoulders drop, your breath deepen, or your mind settle.

This simple practice mirrors the broader relationship between rest and surrender. When we choose to rest, we’re not “wasting time”—we’re making space for healing, clarity, and growth.



Why Rest Is Essential in an Overstimulated World

Modern life inundates us with sensory input—screen time, notifications, background noise, and constant demands on our attention. This overstimulation taxes our nervous systems, often leaving us in a chronic state of low-grade stress or burnout.

Mindful rest counteracts this by:

  • Reducing Cortisol Levels: Studies show that mindfulness practices lower stress hormones, helping the body recover from overstimulation.
  • Enhancing Creativity and Problem-Solving: Moments of rest create the mental space needed for insights and fresh ideas to emerge.
  • Restoring Balance to the Nervous System: By engaging the parasympathetic "rest-and-digest" response, mindful rest helps regulate emotions and energy levels.

Rest Is a Practice, Not a Destination

Rest isn’t something we achieve once and for all—it’s a practice we return to, moment by moment. Life, with its infinite challenges and opportunities, offers us countless chances to practice resting in the present.

By reframing rest as a practice, we release the guilt or resistance we might feel and instead view it as an essential part of mindful living. Resting becomes an active choice to honor our well-being and embrace our humanity.


Call to Action: Try a Rest Practice Today

Take a few minutes to try this guided mindfulness practice focused on rest and surrender. Use this guided practice to experience the healing power of mindful rest for yourself.

Let it remind you that rest is not a luxury but a necessity—and a beautiful way to reconnect with the life in front of you.


Rest is a gift we can give ourselves at any moment. By incorporating mindful rest into daily life, we create the conditions for greater clarity, resilience, and peace. This December, as the world grows quieter and invites reflection, let’s lean into the practice of rest and rediscover its power.

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