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Four Simple Poses for Stress and Overwhelm




Finding moments of stillness and connection with the body can feel out of reach when it seems that the pace of life is getting faster and faster. But what if you could create a sense of calm and presence without even leaving your chair? These four simple seated poses are accessible to most and can be practiced at home, in the office, or wherever you find yourself sitting.

Let’s explore how these poses can help you feel more grounded, restore balance, and create mindful moments in your day.


1. Grounded Seat: Finding Your Foundation

Start by sitting with both feet flat on the floor or supported by blocks, about hip-width apart. Rest your hands gently on your lap, palms facing down or up, or perhaps bring one hand to the chest and one hand to the belly—whichever feels more natural.

As you settle in, feel the connection between your feet and the earth beneath you. Close your eyes or soften your gaze.

Why it helps:

  • Promotes a sense of stability and connection to the present moment.
  • Encourages mindfulness by drawing attention to your breath and physical sensations.

Take a few slow breaths, noticing the inhale expanding your belly and the exhale grounding you further into your seat.









2. Reaching for Length: Stretch and Release

From your grounded seat, inhale deeply as you reach both arms overhead, stretching through the sides of your body. Feel the length from your hips to your fingertips. On the exhale, soften your shoulders and let your seat feel heavy and stable.

Why it helps:

  • Relieves tension in the shoulders and upper back.
  • Encourages deep breathing, which can calm the nervous system.
  • Creates a sense of spaciousness in the body and mind.

Repeat this flow a few times, matching the movement with your breath.















3. Seated Cow Pose: Opening the Heart

Bring your hands to your knees, thighs, or use the chair as support. As you inhale, arch your spine gently, lifting your chest and gazing slightly upward. Let your shoulders draw back as you open through the front body.

Why it helps:

  • Stretches the chest and abdomen, countering the effects of hunching over desks or devices.
  • Opens the heart, inviting a sense of receptivity and gratitude.

Take a few breaths here, savoring the openness you’ve created.










4. Seated Cat Pose: Releasing Tension

From seated cow, exhale deeply as you round your spine, pressing your hands into your thighs or knees. Tuck your chin slightly and feel the stretch across your back.

Why it helps:

  • Relieves tension in the upper and lower back.
  • Encourages a release of emotional or physical stress.

Flow between seated cow and cat poses for a few rounds, inhaling into the openness of cow and exhaling into the release of cat.


Why These Poses Work for Everyone

These poses are intentionally simple yet powerful. Whether you’re a seasoned yogi or someone who’s never stepped onto a yoga mat, they offer a way to reconnect with your body and breath. You don’t need fancy equipment, special clothing, or even much time—just a chair and a willingness to pause.


Your Invitation to Pause

The next time you feel overwhelmed, take a moment to ground yourself in your seat. Move through these poses with intention and notice how even a few breaths can transform your energy and mindset.

Mindfulness begins wherever you are—why not start now?

It's all practice!

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